Bride Cancels Wedding After Getting Fed Up With Controlling Parents

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    Font - Posted by u/RoutineAd7028 2 days ago 適岛要2S6 AITA for cancelling my wedding because my family and my in laws wouldn't shut up about it? Not the A-hole
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    Font - I'm being called a bridezilla left and right about this and my fiancé is called a simp for apparently doing as I say despite that being a mutual decision.
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    Hair - My family and my fiancé's family have tried to have a say at our wedding in every aspect possible.
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    Font - How many guests we will invite,who we will invite, what kind of suit my fiancé will wear, what kind of wedding dress I'll wear, what kind of venue we will book,what kind of food we will have, what kind of music we will play,what song we will have our first dance to.
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    Font - Everything we've planned, our families always judge and are unpleased and always have something negative to say.
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    Font - Planning our wedding has been more stressful and less fun for that reason. I feel like I can't have the wedding I want to have because they'lIl find a way to ruin it. At this point I don't enjoy any of it and neither does my fiancé.
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    Font - We tried to make our boundaries clear with our families several times and they'd get mad and somehow got worse whenever we tried to set boundaries.
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    Mammal - My fiancé and I both decided we will not have our wedding and we will just go to the courthouse with our two best friends as witnesses.
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    Font - And that's it. No parties, no venues, no receptions. Just us, with our dream dress / suit and our two best friends. And after that we'll book a restaurant to have some dinner with our 10 closest friends. That's all.
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    Font - Our families are continuing with the guilt tripping. Even my sisters who used to remain neutral and even supported me sometimes are now saying I'm taking it too far and that I'm manipulating my fiancé about this too. They keep insulting us and telling us to change our decision.
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    Font - We demanded an apology from their behavior and then we might have our wedding but they refuse to see why they should apologise. We said we stand firm. AITA?
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    Font - Edit : Many people are asking who's paying. Our parents are helping us a lot financially but we are also paying. Our parents used the financial support as a way to control our decisions. We wouldn't stand for that.
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    Font - They shouldn't offer to pay if they couldn't respect that the final decisions would be our own. For example my in laws refused to pay for the dress I picked because it was beige and not white.
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    Font - Our parents demanded we uninvite friends of ours to make room for relatives and friends of their own. And many other things.

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